Grateful

A couple of life updates:

*We are moving back to Craven County!
*JJ got a wonderful job opportunity at Cherry Point. He leaves for training in MD tonight. He will miss all his former coworkers and bosses in Elizabeth City.
*I am going to start *hopefully* working at Swansboro High School at the end of the month. I am finish up at Perquimans in two weeks. I will be teaching Teen Living and Interior Design I & II.
*We will be living in New Bern with JJ's father Jim to help offset some of his bills and take care of him. Mainly we want to be with him and spend time together as a family

So we spent this whole weekend packing with my parents. My parents surprised me with a laptop with Windows 8 since I have to return my work computer. I am using it as a type :) My parents will be here with a U-Haul when I get off of work on Friday. I am having two boys load the truck. Saturday we plan to work on the New Bern house and get it ready for us to live there and also to do some projects around the place before Jim returns. I have to come back to Perquimans to finish out  my last week of work then I will be in New Bern for good.

I get sad when I realize what we are leaving here in Hertford/Elizabeth City. This is the place where we really grew close as husband and wife. I know for a fact I would NOT be who I am today if it wasn't for all the experiences I have had in the area. We have met some awesome people while we have been here! Laura Biggs: the best clinical teacher and friend in the world!, Cindi, Will, Becky, John, Erin, Brandon, Corey, Willie & his family, Amy & Wayne & their family, Angel (my mentor), J's coworkers, soccer players & their families, my coworkers (Ashley, Bob, Sarah, Hannah). Everyone has been wonderful to us and taught us lots. We have had great times with everyone here and will cherish them forever. It's not goodbye forever but see ya later!

But then I realize what moving home means. Here is the list of why I am SO happy to move home!!!!!!

*Family. Family. Family.
*We are so blessed to be able to go home to care for Jim and be with him with everything happening. I wouldn't trade this for anything. It will be nice for J and Kara to know exactly what is going on with their Dad. I can make sure he is eating well and is being spoiled;)
*My parents are the BOMB. Every time J and me hang out with them we always have a fun time. J and Dan get along so well and me and my mama are two peas in a pod. I cannot wait to call my mama up to hang out on a Saturday. Since 2008 when I moved we have had so many long phone conversations and I am happy we can actually go do more things together. J and Dan already have plans to go shooting guns and play golf. When the time comes for us to have kids I will be happy they will REALLY know their Grammy and Pappy.
*Mallory and her family. I have been gone since Aubrey was born. I moved to Greenville two months before she was born. J and me are happy we will be able to be around them as they grow. We cannot wait to pick them up and take them to do fun things. I am happy when they have sporting or school events we will be able to be there. I love them and cannot wait to be their "full time Aunt!" Who knows, maybe one day Aubrey will be babysitting our kids!
*Lauren Beth. I don't even know how to begin to share my excitement on this one! Lauren is "my person". I can tell her anything and she always has an open heart and accepts me for who I am. I love her dearly. It will be a good feeling to call her up for drinks after work or to kick it with her and her hubby on the weekends. I am happy for the adventures in store for us! I know this is not in the immediate future but if and when the time comes for us to have kids I am so happy my kids will have their "Aunt Lauren" in their lives. She will be such a genuine influence.
*Ashley Bambina will only be a 40 minute drive. Even though it isn't "across the hall" close I am still happy to be close to her again. We were together almost everyday in college but the past two years we have had to be apart but for good reasons (working overseas, moving for jobs). I am ecstatic to be able to spend time with her again like the good ol' days. Dog walking, Netflix veg sessions and the likes are in store for us. We won't think twice before throwing our crap into a car and riding off on a adventure. I look forward to more adventures with my bambeanie baby. ;)
*Jake, Renee & Con Man! Jake is JJ's cousin (more like brother). Renee has become one of my absolute closest friends and Conor is growing like a weed. We are happy to be closer to them to watch Conor grow and spend quality time with all three of them.
*JJ to be around his friend Tim, who is like his brother!
*J has some family is Havelock as well and it will be good to be close to them too.
*Mrs. Allmon & her husband. I am happy that I can go enjoy Sundays with the Allmon's at their country home in Vanceboro. I have some of my fondest college memories driving out to her house when I was stressed beyond belief. The rides home always came with a sense a clarity as to what was important in life. I am a better person and wife from spending time with them. Their marriage is an inspiration to mine. I love sitting outside with them watching her chickens, going through her garden and enjoying a glass of sweet tea. She is the one who taught me how to sew and I spent endless hours working on projects there. If they ever need anything I would jump up and drive to them with zero reservations.
*Mario's Pizza..and Paula's Pizza....La Rosas...and Musashi!
*Atlantic Beach and Emerald Isle
*Annunciation
*More drives out to Cherry Branch!
*There are coffee shops *hallelujah*
*We will be close to family so our vacations won't be spent driving, although we will be going to visit Kara, Tom, Tyler Anne & the new walnut of course, so we can actually take trips WE want to take.
*I am happy to reconnect with old friends in the area too. I look forward to spending time with Caroline and Ashley Holder. I am looking forward to catching up with friends of my youngster days, Christy and Jessica Drake.

I am sure I am forgetting some people/things/food places (such a fatty!). I hope everyone has a wonderful Sunday ahead of them.

Much Love, Marcy

Moment to sit back and reflect...

I cannot believe it is already November!

Quick update:

• I have been teaching for over 1/2 a semester into my first year now. There have been many struggles and some days I come home thinking "What is the world....?" but reflecting back I wouldn't trade it for anything! I love what I do and couldn't imagine doing anything else at this point in time. Every experience this past year leaves me thinking I have learned so much and doubtful I will be able to learn anymore and I am wrong every single time. I have grown and learned so much these past couple months not only about teaching and my career but myself, my marriage, my husband, etc.
• JJ and I finished coaching soccer for this season. Between this and teaching it goes without saying we were/still are both beyond exhausted. All in all, the players excelled and truly improved. They saw their first win in quite sometime this season. Every game we played was a competitive game. Perquimans soccer is not the easy game for any other team anymore.
•  JJ and I celebrated our 1 year anniversary this past September. We watched our wedding DVD for the first time and boy was I teary eyed... more like sobbing;) What a beautiful day we will both cherish forever.
• We moved from EC to Hertford into a quiet neighborhood. We are enjoying living here more than living in EC. EC was fun while it lasted but for where we are at in our lives this house meets our needs better.
• We found out that my father-in-law Jim has stage 4 pancreatic cancer. On top of this, he had to have a back surgery to fix nerve that was being smashed and cutting off function to his right lower side of the body causing complete atrophy. Everyone is upset and worried. I held a good front in front of the whole family but when I am alone I get emotional. He has been like a father to me since I was 16 years old. I have so many life changing memories with him including camping, ski trips, Las Vegas, mountain trips, Shackleford Banks and the list could go on and on with destinations we have all traveled together to. But aside from the vacations, it's the little things like fishing at night during beach week or the glass apple mug he gave me for my high school graduation because he knew I was going to teach that put a lump in my throat. The hardest part is recalling his toast at our wedding and how we slowed danced and he told me I was the most beautiful girl in the room and the most confident one for miles. I can't even type this without tearing up. My heart breaks for my husband who has already lost a parent to cancer and now is worried about the same thing happening again. He is only 24 years old. No 24 year old should know what it feels like to lose one parent and even have to think about losing another. J and I are both trying to stay as positive as possible.
• J and me are doing excellent in our marriage. Even though we are both worried and stressed with family health, work, etc. we still stay stronger than ever together and tackle everything with perseverance. I thought I meant it the day we got married but even in a years time I can say my love for him has grown stronger than I could ever imagine. I am proud to say he is my husband. He is wonderful, smart, compassionate, cute and my list could keep going on and on. I have no idea how he keeps it all together through tough times like these. It's good to know my husband is a fighter and is so, so strong. I know that when the time comes and we expand our family that I will have that same man standing by my side through whatever life my toss our way.

That is all for now. 

I am going to watch Steel Magnolias and cuddle with my little family. 

I will leave everyone with one last thought...

Friday the 13th

And what better way to start it off than by having a horrible nightmare?

Yup. Thanks a bunch fictional holiday!

Several years ago JJ and me traveled to Pigeon Forge, TN and on the way back we stopped in at a Native American store and he bought me a dream catcher. Ever since, I have not had any bad dreams. I used to have many my Sophomore year of college. I have been sleeping pleasantly since we moved to Elizabeth City UNTIL I put my "wonderful" dream catcher up. Wednesday night I had a serene, clarifying dream then last night...made me wake up confused, sweating and completely unhappy. We will be gone this weekend so hopefully I can see if it even has anything to do with the dream catcher.

I hope everyone has a relaxing yet fun weekend. JJ had his check up yesterday and is healing just fine. Went to Joann's to use a gift card a friend and her fiancee (Cindy and Will) gave me for graduation. Thanks again!! Today I have some errands to take care of and I am going to Zumba at 11:00 a.m. with my buddy Erin. The plan is to stay in New Bern tonight. Tomorrow morning I am going to meet my mama to get some clothes for my first year of teaching (like I said, my mama is the BEST!) Heading to Ashleigh Smith's shower thrown by Lauren after that. Then...BEACHIN' it up baby! The goals over beach week include 1. Catching up with JJ, family and friends 2. Relaxing 3. Keeping up with my working out 4. Relaxing 5. Relaxing ;)

Lots of Love! Marcy

"Say It Ain't So"

I wish I posted on a regular basis so I wasn't feeling like I am playing catch up! Since I wrote my last update post....

1. The school year finished out and my students did well on their finals! The Foods I final exam scores were wonderful!!! The week after school was out we had a Common Core workshop where we focused on getting our curriculum maps completed for the next school year as well as trying to alter our thinking towards project-based learning. I love the concept and have many good ideas but just need to find ways to get more specific for each one I have. It was a lonnggg week but very beneficial for me, especially being a new teacher.
2. My brain has officially defrosted ;) I have been able to do some de-cluttering, soul searching and relaxing! Been able to try some new recipes. I have kept up with Zumba and been able to hang out with some of my EC friends. 
3. Was able to celebrate Father's Day with JJ's dad a little late but nonetheless, we had a amazing time. Spent some time with my family over the Salter families events. My sister and her husband had their marriage blessed in the Catholic church on their 5 year anniversary. That same day, Aubrey, Cullen and James were baptized.  JJ and I are Aubrey's godparents. This bring up a new point...
4. When we were first asked, we both were more than honored. But this title was without a doubt what got me to change some of my thought processes. What kind of spiritual guidance would I be able to offer her? JJ has always been stronger in his faith than myself. Since this event I have definitely doing some soul searching from how I spend my time to what I think about even down to the choice of words I am using. I wouldn't say I have done a 180 but just trying to continually think of ways to improve because none of us are perfect. Of course I want to be the best/nicest/most genuine wife, daughter, sister, friend, teacher, "mommy to the dogs" and even stranger to those I do not know. But even more importantly, I want to be the best "me," I can be. 
5. I started an experiment to try not to be so "bossy" in my marriage. It's easy to just say how I feel right when it occurs, especially to my husband. He has truly ALWAYS been there for me, more than anyone and in ways I just can't begin to explain. The only other person I can rate here would be my absolutely, stellar mother. The two of them are the only people I have truly broken down in front of and let it ALL out. They have been my biggest supporters with their unfailing love and acceptance. They keep me striving to always be the best I can be. But back to my "bossy" change, I started with little things like biting my tongue when he was driving one time back home (I am the absolute WORST "back seat" driver when he is driving!). After a couple of ALMOST slip ups I started to relax. Once I did, we had some of the best conversations on the drive and laughed so much at random things. We didn't talk about bills or or jobs or stresses in our lives. We just had fun. The second thing I did was for a whole week I didn't boss him to wake him up or clean up after himself. Although the house did get a little messier, it was worth it to not see ANY friction at the end of the day. I even noticed he was even MORE attentive to the dishes/laundry that week. I was amazed at what a small change could make to our daily lives. 
6. JJ had to get his wisdom teeth out last Friday. They had to cut up into his sinus cavity and even down into his jaw to remove his 5 (YES, 5!) wisdom teeth. I felt beyond helpless once I got him home. I felt worn out myself! I made sure to wake up every 2 hours to make sure he took his medicine, remembered to feed him first and it was until Saturday night that I realized.. I HADN'T been eating! This was awful and I felt like complete crap. But even through his swollen-ness and feeling like death he knew I wouldn't go fix myself something to eat when I was too busy taking care of him.. he ordered me a pizza knowing he couldn't partake.. now, that's a great husband!
7. Lastly for this blog, JJ and I are going to be the soccer coaches @ PCHS this fall. JJ will be the head coach and I will be the assistant. He was taken such charge in getting everything together and being honest, it's pretty sexy!!! It's nice to see him able to get into something he is so passionate about again but this time for other people..the students/team! I thought keeping ourselves busy would help my continue to push aside thoughts of having children but being honest, seeing him shine through in this leadership, seeing how our relationship is thriving and just everything is NOT helping my case!!! ;) Only time will tell but as for right now, going to continue to enjoy our lives and my new teaching career/coaching position this year and give it my all!

Lots of Love! Marcy

PCHS Soccer Schedule

PCHS Soccer 2012

*All games start @ 6 p.m.

Date	Opponent	Home/Away	Address
August 29th	Pasquotank	Home	PCHS Field (Recreational Center) 310 Granby Street Hertford, NC 27944
September 5th	Pasquotank	Away	1064 Northside Road Elizabeth City, NC 27909
September 10th	Hatteras	Away	48576 HWY 12 Buxton, NC 27920
September 12th	Northside	Home	PCHS
September 17th	Riverside	Home	PCHS
September 19th	Southside	Away	5700 NC HWY 33 E Chocowinity, NC 27817
September 24th	Manteo	Home	PCHS
September 26th	Camden	Home	PCHS
October 1st	Gates	Home	PCHS
October 2nd	Hatteras	Home	PCHS
October 8th	Northside	Away	7868 Free Union Church Road Pinetown, NC 27865
October 10th	Riverside	Away	1260 Godwin Avenue Williamston, NC 27892
October 15th	Southside	Home	PCHS
October 17th	Manteo	Away	829 Wingina Avenue Manteo, NC 27954
October 22nd	Camden	Away	103 US 158 West Camden, NC 27921
October 24th	Gates	Away	88 US HWY 158 West Gatesville, NC 27938
October 31st	TBA	PLAY OFFS BEGIN!	TBA

Recently...

Wow- where do I even begin!?

Since I wrote last, I have done/seen/finished...

1. My absolutely wonderful internship. The knowledge I gained from my clinical teacher is beyond measureable. Without her guidance and leadership I would not be the successful teacher I am..which leads me to...
2. I have my first official teaching job! I am out at Perquimans County High School and I am truly loving it! This semester I taught Teen Living, Foods 1 and 2. Next semester, I will be teaching Personal Finance and Food Technology. My students surprised me this semester. They were respectful and inquisitive. Their entrepreneurship project was a hit (will post pictures later). My job is sending me to two conferences this summer: biotechnology in Wilmington and the CTE conference in Greensboro. In between all of this I....
3. Threw my best friend her bridal shower. I would do anything for that girl (Lauren). Her bridal shower turned out to be such a hit. Thanks to Elizabeth for helping me decorate, Amy for making the wonderful centerpieces and all the bridesmaids and Ms. Wendy for bringing yummy food!
4. Graduated from East Carolina University with my Bachelors of Science in Family and Consumer Sciences education. I am beyond lucky that I found this major because it has turned into the perfect career for me. I couldn't be happier! Eventually when I go back to graduate school, this degree set me up for numerous options.
5. Was a bridesmaid in Kara and Tom's wedding ceremony. It was wonderful to see all the family and just makes me wish we lived closer to them because I truly miss getting to watch Tyler Anne grow like a weed. I made her a first year scrapbook that I know she will love to look at when she gets older.
6. Went to Lauren's bachelorette party in Myrtle Beach. She has no idea where we were taking her and I LOVED tricking her the whole way ;) I had so.much.fun with all the girls! It was one of the best weekends of my life. Lauren "went out" with a bang!
7. Went to Sam and Eric's wedding. Her ceremony, decorations, reception, etc. were so original, so her and beyond beautiful! Their wedding day was absolutely perfect and I wish them many years of laughter, love and happiness!
8. On the one weekend I had free, I still went back home to hang out with my family and friends. I went to a lovely dinner with my parents and got a label maker (BIG DEAL for a new teacher!) I was able to enjoy some downtime with the soon-to-be bride at the beach. Was able to see some friends from high school and then got a beach day with our E.C. friends in Kitty Hawk. 
9. Last but certainly not least to wrap up my weeks of fun I was a bridesmaid in Lauren and Jon's wedding celebration. I feel beyond lucky to be part of her big day. She has been my best friend, my sister, "my person" these past couple of years. I love her so much and couldn't describe just how wonderful her whole weekend was. I meant what I said- JJ & I are always here for both of you. I look forward to watching your love grow and thrive throughout these coming years!

After all of these events, I plan to enjoy some down time with my hubby and doggies. Today we went to the farmers market and I bought fresh blackberries and just got done baking homemade blackberry cobbler. We are having some friends over for a BBQ tonight and to play some games. Tomorrow I am off to see my bestie Ashley Polk who just got back from Spain!!!! It's been since last fall I saw her. I am so happy she will be staying here now! Glad she had the time of her life in Spain but happy to have her back in the states. She is starting on her masters degree this summer and I am proud of you sugar booger ;)

I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend! Look for new recipes, pictures, stories, etc. here. JJ and I just went today to look at this gorgeous house in the country sitting on 13 acres with chicken coops, horse stalls.. the whole country life I have ALWAYS wanted. We will just have to see.....

MUCH LOVE! Marcy

I'm back!

& Ready to begin blogging again! Saw the blogger changed their privacy settings so you can't search me by name and find my blog (reason I went completely private because there was no way I wanted my student's finding this!).

Can't wait to write and fill everyone in. Life is beyond good!

It's the most wonderful time of the year...almost.

I hope everyone has been doing awesome because even through "hell week" at ECU, I have still managed to keep positive no matter what.

My niece Tyler Anne just turned 1 years old this past Saturday! She had an awesome birthday party (JJ and Jim even dressed up as pirates because it was a pirate theme). Kara made her an adorable owl cupcake cake. The whole day was so relaxing. Aunt Danielle and me got in the hot tub and soaked away the Thanksgiving holiday in style. Speaking of Thanksgiving, I think this one was the best one yet! We started by leaving EC Wednesday after JJ got off of work. We dropped the doggies off in New Bern and Jim came with us to my parent's oyster steaming and crawfish etouffee night. They started this sort of tradition last year the Wednesday before Thanksgiving but JJ couldn't go because Kara went into labor with Tyler Anne! How time has flown! We all had a blast at my parent's and Lauren joined us too. Many people enjoyed a cold beer but I had strep throat and felt like death so I opted out. We stayed at my mama's house and celebrated Thanksgiving with my family in the early afternoon. JJ helepd Aubrey "beeuild" with Legos. We then headed to Emerald Isle to celebrate with the Mead's where Tyler Anne, Jim, Kara and Tom had arrived. The whole day was beyond fun and I loved getting to spend time with our families. Friday Kara and I toughed the Black Friday crowds for a little while then made a Mexican feast for dinner. Sunday we went to Annunciation with the Mead's and then enjoyed breakfast at Bayside (Thanks again Aunt Mitzi!). We headed back to EC late Sunday night.

This week has been CRAZY! I headed back to Greenville on Tuesday morning and this is how my schedule went: Computer lab for 3 hours, class, KON initiation, class, Lauren's house (best part!), internship where I had the worst headache of my life but did my last lesson, helped Jessica make a swaddle for Nathaniel, Lauren's house where I did my presentation, final exam, presentation, computer lab, presentation, computer lab, class and then turned in 2 big assignments then FINALLY- on the road again back to EC! Came home to my house decorated for Christmas, swept and room rearranged all thanks to my hubby! :D

I just wanted to do a little shout-out to my buddy Lauren. If it wasn't for her, all this back and forth would have been dreadful! Thanks for opening up your house to me- it truly made a huge difference in my attitude and comfort in Greenville! You are such an amazing friend to me and I thank God for putting us back together. I think we make a pretty unstoppable, hilarious team.. definitely one that the world couldn't handle missing! I love you!

While I am on the subject of feeling sappy, let me just point out a couple of things. I am working on writing my Christmas letters to go in my Christmas cards (corny..I know) and I got to thinking...wow, how am I going to fit all of my overflow of blessings onto ONE little page!? It will go something like this: getting engaged, JJ's graduation, bridal shower, bachelor/bachelorette party, our wedding and now marriage, JJ landing a wonderful job, us moving to EC, me finishing up my last "semester" at ECU...I just got exhausted thinking about everything that happened. Not many people can say their year was the best year ever but I know wholeheartedly- ours was! Thank you to all the people who supported us unconditionally (my parents, Jim, my three amazing sisters, all of our family members, my bestest friends (Lauren, my bambeanie Ashley, Alli, Kaitlyn, Yolanda, Janna) who stuck by my side through it all. I most importantly want to thank my hubby who always keeps me calm, works hard for our new little sprouting family and prevailed through all the obstacles this year brought (can't have a rainbow without the rain, right?) He is a motivating factor to push through my traveling and school because come May, it will all be worth it! I can't wait to take our delayed honeymoon this summer. It is going to mean so much to me to get to spend that relaxing time with you and I feel we will appreciate it a ton!

My parents are the best parents in the whole world. Point blank. No questions. They would do anything for their children and even their grandchildren now. They have been so supportive of all the changes in mine and JJ's life this past year. We couldn't have done any of this without them! My mama has been the bestest friend I could have ever asked for. When I am feeling lonely or sad or mad or happy, she is always there to lend a listening ear. I don't know what I would do without her. They sacrifice so much for us kids and I hope that as JJ and I venture into independence, both of our parents can finally start doing things for THEMSELVES. Both of our parents have given so selflessly to us and I hope as we start to build our family, we can do the same for them! Mama- I was serious about of Vegas trip by the way!

I haven't had anytime to post any tutorials because I haven't been able to exercise my creative side in awhile. I hope I can catch up and not disappoint soon but for now, I am going to continue to watch the Rachel Ray show drinking my hot cup of coffee with my dogs by my side in my newly placed bed with the heat blanket soaring. Have a good day everyone!

Sincerely,

Marcy Beth

A - Z

A-Z

A. Age: 22
B. Bed size: Queen
C. Chore that you hate: Pretty much all of them but #1 would be dusting!
D. Dogs: Rascal and Mercedes (Rascal is lab/husky/chow/pit bull mutt boy and Mer is a poodle/beagle mix but I think she has terrier in her?)
E. Essential start to your day: Coffee. No questions.
F. Favorite color: Purple, Teal
G. Gold or Silver: Silver
H. Height: 5'3"
I. Instruments you play: does the recorder count?
J. Job title: Currently: unemployed!
K. Kids: 0
L. Live: in Elizabeth City
M. Mother’s name: Kimberly
N. Nicknames: "Marcy Beth", Little Bit, Ember
O. Overnight hospital stays: No
P. Pet peeves: The sound of Styrofoam..!!!!Q. Quote from a movie: "Don't judge me monkey"-Grandma's Boy
R. Right or left handed: Right
S. Siblings: Older brother, two older sisters, sister-in-law and a half-brother
U. Underwear: Always
V. Vegetable you hate: BEETS!!!!!!
W. What makes you run late: My dogs being so cuddly
X. X-Rays you’ve had: Teeth
Y. Yummy food that you make: I don't think I have a signature dish but I keep trying new recipes all the time
Z. Zoo animal: Otters

After some soul searching, I can't think of a title!

I have already started slacking horribly on keeping up with my blog. :/

I know this video is super random but JJ and I started singing this on the way up to VA Beach yesterday and I forgot how funny this song is!

I don't even know where to begin playing catch-up so instead of writing a novel I will make this shorter than I normally would. My internship this past week: we made homemade cinnamon rolls. My classes went smooth as well. Thursday night I got to go back to Havelock to stay with my family. I got to see my niece and nephews. I went to Lauren's bridal party night (I think I had more fun than I could even begin to describe!) My mama came with me so that made the night even better. Saturday I came back home and recovered. JJ and I watched "Limitless" on Netflix and it was an interesting movie.  Yesterday we went up to VA Beach to see some of JJ's family. I took the girls to the mall and we saw Breaking Dawn. I was shocked at how graphic the movie was since it is geared towards teenagers. I thought the movie was good and I will definitely have to go see Part II when it comes out. 

I actually get to be home until Wednesday afternoon. We are heading to Havelock to have oysters with my family. Thursday around lunch we are doing Thanksgiving with my family then we are heading to Emerald Isle to do Thanksgiving with JJ's family. I am making a broccoli and cheese casserole (can't give the recipe because it's a secret!), sweet potato cupcakes and pumpkin fudge. If the pumpkin fudge turns out correctly, I will post it. Tonight for dinner I am making beef stroganoff and asparagus for dinner. I will post pictures later.

I have several recipes and steps I have not posted yet so I will post one later today.

One reflection I have is this: I am so happy with where I am at right now. There are only a few loose ends I feel like I need to tie in my life (school, only two relationships), and I can see how much I have grown in just the three years I have been at college. Things that would bother me then certainly do not bother me now. When something bothers me now, I address it then instead of stewing or thinking into it too much.

Hope everyone has a wonderful Monday! :)

Words from the wise:

Sincerely,
Marcy

Out of touch

Sorry I have been so slack on writing! Keeping up with my blog makes me happy but I have had so much going on in my life. Some good (hanging with the hubby and Lauren came to visit) and some bad (not ready to blog about all of it yet) but life is trucking along. Will be posting later this week! Fabric pumpkins turned out great for the luncheon. Last thought of the day: starting to read the novel version of Fireproof by Eric Watson. Heard this was good so giving it a shot!

Sincerely,
Marcy

Fabric Pumpkins

Fabric Pumpkin!

Here are the directions:
NOTE: If you have a rotary cutter, USE IT instead of scissors! Much easier but I think I lost mine in the move :(

 Fabric Needed: Large 10” x 21”, Tall 10” x 18”, Med. 9” x 16”, Small 7” x 10”

 

1. Fold fabric right sides together making a sq/rect.

 

How I pivot when sewing- keep the needle in and lift the presser foot.

 

Always back stitch to secure your stitches.

See? Secured!

Cut the cord;)

Sew down 1 short side and 1 long side. (1/4” seam)

2. Do not turn right side out yet. Make a squared bottom by spreading

apart bottom and folding up one side and matching it to side seam and

folding up opposite side and matching seam to fold.

Fold as directed. I always iron to hep keep seams opened. Plus, ironing helps to keep your pumpkin standing up.

3. Measure 2” in from point for 3 largest sizes and 1” in for small size

Measuring and drawing a line in pencil so I know where to cut.

Cut off points to leave 1/4” seam

After you cut 2" from the tip of the triangle

Sewing the edge

How it should look after you sew the edge closed

4. Turn right side out.

Standing up

With double strand of heavy duty thread make

a knot 5” in from end and sew a gathering stitch ¼” in around top of

pumpkin leaving a 5” tail.

Make-do gathering stitch

So you get the idea... be careful not to break this stitch! The purpose is so you can pull this open or closed. For the finished product, this will stay closed

5. Weight the pumpkin by placing 1-1/2c.cat litter in a Ziploc bag

for Lg. pumpkin, 1c. tall and medium, and 1/2c. for small. Stuff

pumpkin. Pull up gathering stitch and tie leaving room for cinnamon

stick stem.

(Sorry I do not have a picture of this step for these pumpkins yet. I have to get the supplies. Will post soon!)

6. To make pumpkin sections use embroidery floss as if tying up a

present…number of sections is up to you…tie a knot.

(Will post soon. You can look at the examples below to get an idea.)

7. Decorate!

Mine is the front left. This was my first attempt to make one and I thought it turned out wonderful!

You can get the decorations at Family Dollar or Micheal's if you are feeling fancy!

If you have any questions while creating this, shoot me an e-mail: hebertm08@students.ecu.edu

I get e-mail straight to my phone!

Sincerely,

Marcy

Eliza Doolittle "Skinny Genes"

Enjoy this video! Reminds me of my super awesome Bambeanie Polk (Ashley Polk).

Here is a picture of this cool person and myself:

And here is a picture of our lazy feet, moments before we fell asleep on the hammock for a couple of hours!:

 Aren't you glad I forced us to go grab a blanket?

She is in Spain right now. I miss her like crazy! Thank the Lord for Skype or I would go absolutely crazy!

I regret not getting to do as much with her this summer as I wish I could. I was working, planning a wedding and had some family things going on. It's true: Absence makes the heart grow fonder. I can't wait for her to return but I am so proud of her for going on this journey again. I love hearing about all of her adventures! If she does go to the mountains when she returns, then we will have a mountain and a east coast place to crash ;)

Love you schweebie, pumpkin pie head! :)

"I fell right through the cracks and now I am trying to get back"

So here are my whereabouts since my last post...:)

 No reason for this picture.. doesn't it look yummy!?

Thursday I went to school. First class of the day is my hospitality management course and I was the "Back of House" employee for my fellow students Thai luncheon. They did such a wonderful job! The decorations were gorgeous and the food was delicious...especially the soup... I made it by the way ;). My merchandising course was cancelled so I went to an earlier section of my educational technology course (my teacher is so sweet for letting me do this.. keeps me off the road late at night). I truly enjoyed my day of classes on Thursday. I came back to Elizabeth City with a full car to unload (still getting random miscellaneous items to the new place). JJ and I went to our favorite new place, Andy's Pancake and Steakhouse for dinner since it was too late to cook. I got the country fried steak with mashed potatoes and gravy with a side of (my number one favorite fried food...) fried okra! This day was a huge success! Friday I went to pay the rent and send off some thank you cards from the wedding... still working on trickling them all out! You know what they say, slow and steady wins the race? I'm just going to keep believe this. I did some chores around the house and made the most delicious soup.. the same one from the luncheon! I will be posting pictures and instructions after I post this blog so check it out! Saturday we went and did some errands and discovered the neatest fabric store.. it is called "Quilts & More" here in Elizabeth City. It was out in the country and I thought I had typed in the wrong address. When we arrived, it was a store set in a house! Each room had different fabrics and one of the rooms was for sewing classes. We were immediately greeted by the store owner (who was celebrating her 60th birthday) and given plates of food! We ended up sitting and talking with everyone for about two hours! When we finally got home, we caught up on "The Walking Dead" and "American Horror Story" (I LOVE scary stuff!). Sunday we went to the early church service and they were continuing their segment on the four chapters in The Book of Ruth. I can honestly say since I was little, this is the first time I have actually looked this closely at the Bible. It tends to confuse me but I am learning as I go and am enjoying this process. We went to Andy's (again..sad, I know but it is so cheap and so, so good!) and JJ went to play disc golf and I worked on some school assignments. I watched my Desperate Housewives and JJ and I had a bake off to see who could make the best Rice Krispy treats.. (I believe IIII won....). Now, JJ is off to work and I am waiting for the electrician to come and install some base board heat so drinks don't freeze on my counters this winter!

I am actually going to be making some fabric pumpkins later this afternoon.. here is what they will look like if you are interested in seeing this process:

I will catch up on tutorials/instructions when I get back to Greenville.. when I am here in Elizabeth City, I want to spend time with JJ and the doggies!

Here is a link to a lesson I am doing on Wednesday at my internship:

 

http://prezi.com/b77gjohvec-v/foods-ii-402/

Sincerely,

Marcy

P.S. The title is from the Jason Mraz song "I'm Yours". JJ's Uncle Curt played this on his acoustic guitar when I was walking down the aisle... ahhhhh what an absolutely perfect day! <3

Marriage: It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.

Trust me- I will post some blogs in the hobbies realm here soon (bare with me!) I am on the grind here in Greenville. I get to go back to our place late tomorrow afternoon (three cheers- hip hip hooray!!!). Yesterday I had school and then I went to stay at my buddy Lauren's house. I always love spending time with her; we can talk about something and nothing all at the same time while laughing. She is such a blessing to me and I am so glad to have her as one of my absolute best friends. Today I went to my internship and was swamped! The students have a mid-term tomorrow so we were reviewing and playing catch-up. For those of you who don't know, I am interning in a Foods I and Foods II classroom this semester one day a week. Next semester, I will go everyday to my intern site. I am sure I will reference this experience often and I am pumped to see what this adventure will unfold. After my internship I went and waiting for 3 hours to get my physical so I can do my full blown internship next semester. After this awful endeavor, I went to my friend Kaitlyn's house. She invited me to come have dinner with her. She made a spinach quiche and it was BANGIN'! Kaitlyn- please send me the recipe! I forgot to ask!

 

The moment we kissed at our wedding. I actually held my emotions together rather well this day. The only time I truly felt nervous was after everyone had left and it was just me and my dad. We sat there and talked and then rode to the ceremony site. When we arrived, I remember being able to see JJ from the car window and feeling so many butterflies. I couldn't even speak. I sat completely silent in the backseat of the car (and for those of you who know me, you know this is extremely rare- haha!) The only time I cried this day: When I was completely alone. I absolutely HATE crying in front of people. I just don't like people to see me feeling so vulnerable.  I cried when I was all alone and it was just me and my dad at the house. I went to the bathroom and then came out and saw myself for the FIRST time, completely dressed and ready from head to toe in the mirror. It wasn't a sobbing cry but a quick tear/gasp of one. At the moment when I saw myself, all I could think was how happy I was I would be getting to see JJ in a couple of minutes! The day I had been planning for 9 months had FINALLY arrived. All the fine details had come together and the big picture was about to be laid out in front of me. It's a magical feeling and I honestly believe I did a terrible job describing this compared to how I actually felt.

Onto the title of this entry- this is a quote from the last line of a reading in my wedding ceremony (The reading is called "The Art of Marriage". Lauren read this during my ceremony). This line is something I strive to live by everyday since JJ and I have gotten married. I try to make an effort to say a quick "thank you" for even the simplest things. He has entered a new phase of his life since he started his full-time job (which is going great by the way) and I have been doing my very best to help him in this transition. I wake up every morning with him to make his lunch, make sure he has everything he needs, wish him a good day and see him off to work. I realize that I may now not put as much of my time into school activities and/or other obligations that I do enjoy but I am fine with this fact. I want to be the best wife I can be. On top of this, I want to be the best partner and friend to JJ that I can be. I can't be this if I am stretched thin. My life has changed in so many ways this past couple of months. My life certainly was by no means bad before but my life now just feels so much richer- so much more alive. I feel like the whole world is at my fingertips and I just can't wait to discover it all with JJ. I know we both have our own obstacles to overcome within ourselves to grow in our relationship and love but let me just say- I am so blessed we chose each other! :)

Sincerely,
Marcy

Happy Halloween!

Just for fun. Picture of me and my awesome, amazing friend Lauren. So lucky to have her in my life! I love you girl!

I hope everyone has a fun and safe Halloween! Our neighborhood here in Elizabeth City shuts down Main Street which is one block from our house. I am about to head off to the grocery store to get prepared with candy because from what I heard, our neighborhood will be swarming with hungry trick-o-treaters!  People will also take their lawn chairs and line up on the edges of Main Street and pass out candy.

This weekend was pretty low-key. Saturday we watched Breaking Bad when we first woke up, went to the 53rd Albemarle Craftsman Fair (which was amazing! JJ got a "bracer" a.k.a. leather cuff and the guy made it right in front of us) then came home and watched t.v. and picked up Sonic. Sunday we checked out a new church called New Community Church here in Elizabeth City. The people were very warm and welcoming and we plan to go next Sunday. JJ made us spaghetti for dinner and I made Red Velvet Brownies with Cream Cheese icing for JJ to take to work today. I got to watch my Desperate Housewives and then I fell asleep. Each night we were asleep by 11 p.m. Ahhh, the changes life has brought on but I am loving every minute of it.

As far as checking out this new church, it brought up what my beliefs are: I have always been open-minded to others beliefs and discovering my own. I know what I believe and have never been one to shout it out (mainly because I am still working on it) or make someone else feel like their beliefs are inferior to mine. I believe in God. I believe there is a high power greater than me and I didn't just arrive here from spontaneous combustion. I am here with a purpose. Through my life, I have been trying to discover this. Parts of my life have been unfolding (marrying my best friend and true love, reconnecting with friends who made my life full of joy, choosing my field of study because I am passionate about it and hope to make a difference in the lives of the youth, etc). I could go on and on about the blessings that have been unfolded to me. Not many people can say they stand firm with their decisions and let go of the control to something bigger than themselves. I have made my share of mistakes and even though it hurts to look back at some of them, I am just thankful I can recognize them and not make that same mistake twice. I have room to grow and plan to grow each day I am living because if I stop doing so, I don't truly see the point of living.

Enough on the deep stuff, I will be posting some yummy food later!

Sincerely,
Marcy

Butternut Squash Soup...my way

     So I made this on Friday. I made this before with my buddy Lauren and our soup turned out delicious except we had added a little more cinnamon than we had intended but it was still scrumptious! Here is the recipe from AllRecipes.com for "Butternut Squash Soup II".

     Ingredients

• 2 tablespoons butter
• 1 small onion, chopped
• 1 stalk celery, chopped
• 1 medium carrot, chopped
• 2 medium potatoes, cubed (I used 3 to give the soup more texture)
• 1 medium butternut squash - peeled, seeded, and cubed
• 1 (32 fluid ounce) container chicken stock (I actually made my own chicken stock, see below)
• salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste
• (I added ground cinnamon, a couple of dashes)
• (...I added a little bit of Fat Free Half & Half)
  
  
  
  My homemade chicken stock. I made a huge stock pot and froze the rest of use for other soups this winter
  
  I decided to cut up some apples and throw them in to add some more texture and sweetness

Directions

1. Melt the butter in a large pot...
   
   ...and cook the onion, celery, carrot, potatoes, and squash 5 minutes, or until lightly browned....
   
   
   
   It may be hard to see all the ingredients hidden underneath the butternut squash but I promise- they are there!
   
   Pour in enough of the chicken stock to cover vegetables. Bring to a boil.
   Like I said, I used my own chicken stock. All I do is fill up this big ol' pot with potatoes, celery, onions, salt and pepper, water and chicken. I used chicken legs and thighs and I keep the broth I am creating on a rolling boil for about an hour then I let it simmer for awhile. Your whole house will start to smell A-MAZING!
   
   Reduce heat to low, cover pot, and simmer 40 minutes, or until all vegetables are tender.
   
   
2. Transfer the soup to a blender, and blend until smooth.
   
   I use my immersion blender. I bought this (well, technically my mama did!) on sale at Target for $34.00 about a year ago. Great purchase!
   
   
   Return to pot, and mix in any remaining stock to attain desired consistency. Season with salt and pepper. 
   Let me know if you make this and enjoy it! :)
   
   
   
   I made homemade, completely from scratch Red Velvet Brownies with Cream Cheese Icing tonight for JJ to take with him to work tomorrow. I also ended up making homemade Banana Pudding with a twist...I will post these soon! :)
   
   Sincerely,
   Marcy